July 20, 2026 Heartbreak stories 💔失恋話

I spent almost seven wonderful hours with two of my friends yesterday. 😊

For more than two hours, I talked to one of them about my heartbreak.🥺

After listening to everything, he said there was a perfect New York slang insult to describe the guy. 😇

Then he started throwing out all kinds of words and completely roasted him. 😭

Since English is my second language, I probably wasn't even supposed to understand how nasty those insults were... but wow, they were brutal.😂🥹

Honestly, things didn't end well between me and that guy, but we still shared some good memories, so I don't feel the need to insult him.🙂

Still, the explanations behind those New York slang expressions had me laughing.🤣😂

When I told my friend exactly what the guy had said to me, he paused for a moment before saying, "That was disrespectful." 💔

I had actually told that guy before that the thing I hate most is disrespect.😒

Sometimes it's best to ask men about men.😌

I also asked him what makes a man trustworthy. His answer was simple: composure.💚

Then he told me something that really made me happy.

He said one of my strengths is that I try to understand things instead of immediately saying, "Ew, gross," or jumping to conclusions. He said that attitude even helps him sometimes.😌

When I told him about a previous relationship, he was genuinely surprised that I had loved one person for such a long time. lol

(Of course, no cheating! 😏😹)

He also told me, "You should find someone who's way cooler, more handsome, and sexier."

At the end of the day, he told both me and our other friend, "I love you."

Then he explained that, in his culture, it's normal for close friends to say "I love you" to each other.🫂

I asked if I could say it too, and we made sure we both understood the context—that we meant it as friends.😌

I learned a lot yesterday, laughed a lot, and felt really supported.❤️